If you are involved with one member of an existing duo, don’t expect the person you’re involved with to act as a go-between for you and the other playmate.

With grateful acknowledgement to Jenny Often in poly relationships, one person may be dating or considering dating another person who is already part of an existing duo. Sometimes, one person may be considering dating both members of an existing duo.Continue reading… If you are involved with one member of an existing duo, don’t expect the person you’re involved with to act as a go-between for you and the other playmate.